feelings on birth

my feelings on birth are that they are personal and yet open at the same time. Its partly because of the processes that you go through with the pregnancy. Yes if someone asks how are you or hows the baby doing its one thing but when someone asks you can i be in the room when the baby's born and its not even the father thats just past a certain point. Its like they are inconsiderate of the fact that its a really personal momment and that its not what people want to be asked. but still its pretty open i mean we have celebrations just for materialistic items to be bought and we help capailist increase there profit.